I've watched colleagues fracture beneath the accumulated grief of strangers.The family lawyer who excavates her own failed marriage in each bitter cus...

There is a particular quality of light in the corridor outside a courtroom on the morning of a trial. It is neither kind nor unkind. It is simply the light that exists when things are about to become real. It is in that corridor - not in the courtroom itself - where some of the most important work in family law actually happens - empowering a client to settle when they're geared to fight.

Briefing a barrister for the first time can feel intimidating, especially when it arises in moments of urgency or uncertainty. That anxiety is entirely normal. Barristers understand that litigation is rarely neat: instructions change, deadlines compress, and things sometimes go awry. A brief is not a test of competence, but the start of a professional conversation. Good counsel are trained to think on their feet and steady matters when conditions are less than ideal.

Burnout in family law is not simple fatigue but a slow erosion of the inner capacities that make this work possible. When we spend our days absorbing trauma, conflict, and the emotional worlds our clients cannot hold, the weight settles into the body and reshapes the mind. Understanding burnout as a predictable response - not a personal failing - is the first step in preserving the self that does the work.

Court-ordered expert assessments play a critical role in parenting disputes. When a party refuses to participate, the Court may still proceed, draw adverse inferences, and rely on incomplete reports. Conner & Conner (No 2) confirms that resisting assessment does not create appealable error and seldom assists the non-participating parent.

An unexpected courtroom experience revealed the fragile line between competence and compassion. A solicitor, overwhelmed and unprepared, struggled through an unwinnable case. Balancing empathy with my duty to my client underscored a truth often forgotten: advocacy requires more than technical skill. It demands humanity. The most honourable practitioners embody both excellence and kindness.

Parties who reject reasonable offers or make wholly unreasonable counter-offers risk adverse costs orders even if they later settle. From Penfold to Browne v Green and Schultheiss, the courts have made clear that fairness demands parties engage seriously and promptly with genuine proposals. Late acceptance of terms already offered is not redemption - it’s confirmation of wasted opportunity and unnecessary cost.

The Full Court’s decision in Cherokee & Cherokee [2025] FedCFamC1A 191 delivers long-awaited clarity on how defined-benefit superannuation pensions - particularly DFRDB pensions - should be handled in family law property proceedings. Justice Christie confirmed that such pensions are “property” but held that treating them as capital assets can cause injustice. The Court declined to split the pension, instead treating it as an income stream and adjusting the pool to achieve fai

When a barrister put AI to the test, the results were both fascinating and alarming. AI can draft, argue and even mimic reason - but recent cases show that when lawyers and litigants rely on it blindly, the results can be catastrophic. From fabricated citations to phantom authorities, the message is clear: AI is a powerful tool, not a replacement. It can replicate words, but not judgment, and in law, that difference still matters.

This expert playbook explains how to manage appeals when costs remain unpaid. It outlines the appellate court’s limited power to make original enforcement orders, strategies for seeking security for costs or conditional stays, and practical steps for running enforcement below while maintaining control above. It also addresses the challenges of self-represented litigants and the importance of actively enforcing costs orders.

This article explores the hidden dangers of practising law - the unspoken risks faced by those working in emotionally charged areas like family and criminal law. It’s a reflection on safety, vigilance, and the quiet courage required to do this work, and a call for greater awareness and solidarity within the profession.

Family Law’s Hard Truth: The Court Won’t Vindicate Your Parenting - Parents in conflict often believe the court will vindicate them and condemn the other. It almost never happens. This piece looks at how we, as family law practitioners, can reframe those expectations, shift focus away from petty battles, and guide clients toward genuine repair.

Full and frank disclosure is the lifeblood of family law, yet often contested. Two extraordinary cases — one man jailed for perjury, another wrongly jailed then freed — show how courts sometimes respond with extremes to disclosure failures.

Shinohara v Shinohara [2025] ends addbacks in family law. Learn how s79(4) contributions, wastage, and s79(5) factors reshape property settlements.

High-performing professionals, especially in law, are often brilliant at pushing through long hours and high-pressure deadlines — sometimes even thriving on it. But the flip side is that many of us struggle with intentional rest, and guilt can creep in when we slow down. In this piece, I share reflections on why rest feels so hard, why it’s essential to sustaining a legal career, and some small ways I’ve started to relearn it.

When paperwork overwhelms, barristers can step in with drafting and advocacy support, easing pressure for solicitors and sole practitioners.

Strong solicitor–barrister relationships matter. Here’s why I invest in building trust, consistency, and mutual support beyond the first brief.

Managing client expectations in Family Law trials.

Judicial bullying is rare but real, and its impact on practitioners can be profound. While most judicial officers are professional and respectful, there are times when behaviour crosses the line. In this article, I reflect on how to recognise it, why it matters, and practical strategies for responding calmly without escalating — including when and how to set boundaries, and where to seek support.